Consent Issues 2021 Dear Creator Letter

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Dear creator,

Hello! I'm timbre, on AO3 as, well, timbre. First off, thank you for creating for me (or considering it)!

I love everything I'm requesting equally, and as long as the gift doesn't include any DNWs, I will be thrilled to receive it! I'm open to art treats for any of my requests, even for ones that I'm not requesting art for.

This letter includes the information from my signup, prompts, and some of my thoughts on each ship.

Happy creating!

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• General Likes and DNWs
  
• DC's Arrowverse (Supergirl)
  
• Grey's Anatomy
  
• Pretty Little Liars (TV)

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Likes/DNWs

Smut likes:

• cunnilingus
• face-sitting
• fingering
• frottage
• strap-ons (including magical/high tech ones that let the wearer feel it)
• intercrural
• masturbation or mutual masturbation
• breathplay (particularly choking)
• aphrodisiacs
• mind control
• hypnosis
• sex pollen
• "[blank] made them do it"
• clothed sex
• orgasm delay/denial
• begging
• coming in pants
• boot/footgear worship
• foot/leg humping
• puppyplay
• degradation and humiliation 
• fingers in mouth
• desperation (both the piss kind and the orgasm kind)
• oral fixation
• pegging
• collars and/or leashes
• gags
• somnophilia
• restraints
• dream sex
• heated physical or verbal confrontations culminating in sex
• drug use before or during sex (weed, psychedelics, ecstasy are some favorites)
• drunk sex
• shotgunning (while smoking)
• voyeurism (consensual or not)
• crossdressing
• gunplay, knifeplay
• dubcon
• "consensual but not safe or sane" sex
• praise kink
• female character being called "daddy"
• mommy kink
• stealthy public sex
• wing kink, wing grooming
• werecreature sex, shifter sex
• characters kinking on being related to each other

General likes:

• any length of fic
• smut
• power imbalances
• porn without plot
• porn with plot
• porn with feelings
• character studies
• timeloops
• angst
• sexual tension
• pining
• canon-divergent AUs
• bed sharing
• possessiveness
• missing scenes
• first time getting together
• wing AUs (especially if combined with a/b/o-like or D/s dynamics)
• bi/multi lingual characters
• werewolf/vampire/other supernatural AUs where everything is the same except [character(s)] are werewolves/vampires/etc
• fix-it fic
• post-canon fic
• banter
• co-dependency
• fake dating
• time shenanigans
• "what could've been" fics based on canon moments
• characters struggling with internal conflicts
• bodyswap

DNWs:

• anal with a female character receiving
• rimming
• noncon where the victim feels no pleasure
• pregnancy (m-preg and f-preg)
• scat
• crackfic
• unrequested pairings; background mentions of canon pairings is fine though
• trans headcanons
• asexual headcanons
• kidfic
• 1st person (2nd is okay)
• unrequested poly
• fisting
• enthusiastic consent (e.g. establishing a safeword or use of the "green, red" system)
• explicit underage sexual content with a character younger than 13
• AUs where characters who canonically consider each other family no longer do so (unless because of amnesia/memory loss)

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DC's Arrowverse (Supergirl)

Request: Red Kryptonite makes Kara Danvers xcon Alex Danvers - fic, art

Wow, so season 1 episode 16, Falling, was extremely iddy to me and I need approximately 1000 fics about RedK!Kara menacing and humiliating Alex. Like, holy shit, thank you to whoever got that scene between them written and aired. 

Freeforms:

• Arousal - Aroused Victim - I prefer Kara and Alex have some mutual attraction, even if Alex's feelings are deeply repressed. 
• Arousal - Involuntary Arousal Mocked by Aggresor(s) - The way Kara said "aw, did I make you cry?" seriously did things to me. I can imagine her taunting Alex's arousal in a similar manner.
• Attitude - Aggressor Taunts Victim - I mean, this is basically canon, but feel free to take it way further than what Kara actually said in canon.
• Attitude - Victim Unsure of Own Consent 
• Breathplay - Would love to see Kara choking Alex as a power play, only letting up moments before Alex passes out.
• Character(s) Wanted It But Not Like This - I imagine this probably how Alex would feel. She wanted Kara, but not... this Kara.
• Coercion - Aggressor Convinces Victim Only Aggressor Will Ever Love Them - I felt like Kara was just moments away from going on to say something like this in canon, honestly. I love the idea of her manipulating Alex's feelings until Alex is a pitiful mess. 
• Cooperation - Victim is Self-Destructive - Alex Danvers is the queen of self destruction, you can't change my mind. Maybe Kara has an encounter with Red K when Alex is in college, drunk or high out of her mind, and she just lets it happen to herself; lets Kara do whatever she wants to her. 
• Dynamic - Be Careful What You Wish For - If Kara knew about Alex's feelings for her before hand, I can see her straight up saying this to Alex while taunting her. 
• Humiliation - Verbal - Feel free to get as nasty as you want. Even Kara taunting Alex about her sexuality would be okay with me. 
• Incest - Too Guilty About Incestuous Desires to Consent - I didn't even nominate this, but I swear, this tag was made for me. This tag is so Alex, it's perfect. 
• Motive - Loss of Personal Control - Kara's POV would be really interesting here, to see what's going on in her head to make her lose control and act out of her normal behavior so drastically.
• Motive - To Demonstrate Aggressor's Power Over Victim - I'd love to see some of Kara threatening Alex with her strength/powers.
• Praise - Condescending - I love the idea of praise that's really an insult, however you want to make it work.

Request: Alex Danvers xcons Kara Danvers - fic, art

Alex/Kara: Midvale-era feat. xeno! is what I was going for with this request. But feel free to take it wherever the freeforms inspire you.

Freeforms:

• a/b/o - only victim is in heat - Maybe only Kryptonians go into heat, and Kara was too young to experience it on Krypton, so it hits unexpectedly when she's settling in with the Danvers family, and the only one around to help is Alex.
• Arousal - Aroused Victim
• Attitude - Aggressor in Denial About It Being Xcon - With the agegap between Alex and Kara as well as Kara's naivete when she first came to earth, it's unlikely she'd be able to fully consent, but I think Alex would try to convince herself of the opposite, and tell herself that she isn't doing anything wrong
• D/S - Non-Negotiated Kink - Horny teens being horny teens and not asking before doing something kinky.
• Dynamic - Codependency - One of my favorite things about Kara and Alex is their codependency, so feel free to play it up as much as you want.
• Inexperience - Victim comes from a culture where xcon is rare or unheard of - I'm not a comics buff, so I don't know much about Krypton besides what's in Supergirl canon, but I'd love to see this kind of take on it, and how that would affect Kara and her reaction to Alex's touches and attention
• Inexperience - Victim Doesn't Know What Sex Is - I really love playing up Kara's innocence and naivete. Alex fucking her under the pretense of showing her human culture would be amazing.
• Underage - Drinking - Maybe Clark visits and accidentally leaves behind a bottle of alien alcohol that Kara and Alex get their hands on, not fully realizing what it is, and things spiral from there.
• Xeno - Tentacles - Definitely open to Kara having non-human biology in her pants! 
• Xeno - See above.

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Grey's Anatomy

Request: Meredith Grey xcons Lexie Grey, Meredith Grey makes Cristina Yang xcon Lexie Grey, Meredith Grey & Cristina Yang xcon Lexie Grey, Lexie Grey & Meredith Grey mxcon, Cristina Yang makes Meredith Grey xcon Lexie Grey, Addison Montgomery xcons Lexie Grey - fic, art

Lexie Grey Trash Party :D?

Freeforms:

• Abuse of Authority - The residents abusing their power over Lexie as an intern, or the attendings abusing their authority over Lexie as a resident. 
• Altered States - Everyone Is Too Intoxicated to Consent - I can see this with Meredith/Cristina/Lexie or Meredith/Lexie, mostly. Maybe things go way further than they did in canon in the aftermath of Crash Into Me Part 2. Or something set later on, with Meredith inviting people over to drink and things getting out of hand.
• Altered States - Consensual Drugging Leads to Xcon - I can see Meredith sedating Lexie because she's sick, only to realize how tempting her little sister's pliant, unconscious body is. Finally a way for Meredith to get what she wants from Lexie without Lexie knowing...
• Altered States - Somnophilia
• Arousal - Aroused Victim
• Attitude - Aggressor Taunts Victim - Meredith and Cristina are so mean to Lexie sometimes in the show. I'd love to see their attitude towards her remain like that even in the bedroom.
• Attitude - Victim Unsure of Own Consent - Maybe because she feels too guilty over incestuous desires, maybe because she wanted it but not like this, maybe because of the timing or situation--I'd just love to see Lexie's internal struggle during the xcon.
• Betrayal - Consensual Sex Becomes Xcon - I can see Meredith/Cristina/Addison luring Lexie in with the promise of regular sex, and then escalating it to things Lexie maybe didn't agree to--especially Mer and Cristina working together.
• Breathplay
• Clothing - Forced to Wear Revealing Clothes - I LOVE the idea of Lexie (or catgirl!Lexie!!) being Meredith's/Cristina and Meredith's/Addison's little pet that they dress up in sexy cloths, whether or not she likes it.
• Cooperation - Due to Shyness/Fear of Refusing - Especially in the earlier seasons, I can see Lexie just clamming up and letting her superiors do whatever they please with her, to earn their respect.
• Cooperation - To Receive Physical Affection From Aggressor - I can also see her putting up with it to earn Meredith's/Cristina's/Addison's love. Lexie is just so desperate for Meredith's, especially, love in canon.
• Crying - Lexie is such a pretty crier.
• Dynamic - Be Careful What You Wish For
• Humiliation - Forced Petplay - I'd love to see/read Lexie being forced to wear accessories like cat ears/buttplug tail/paws/collar/whatever else you can think of, and maybe she isn't allowed to speak, only to meow, or else her punishment gets worse.
• Humiliation - Verbal
• Incest - Too Guilty About Incestuous Desires to Consent
• Medical - Medical/Scientific Examination - The perfect tag for this canon! I can't believe the lack of medfet fics in this fandom. There's so much potential! Maybe Lexie really is sick/injured but the perpetrator takes the opportunity to take the examination much further than is necessary.
• Motive - Aggressor is Drunk
• Scenario - Argument leads to xcon - All I have to say is this tag is very season 4 Meredith/Lexie-core. 

 

Request: Meredith Grey xcons Lexie Grey - fic, art

Meredith/Lexie: Underage Lexie edition! or at least that's what I was going for with this request. AU where Susan dies much earlier and Thatcher isn't fit to take care of Lexie so she's put under Meredith's care when she's in her early teens and Mer is in her early 20s. Or, yknow, however else you want to make it work.

Freeforms:

• Altered States - Somnophilia - This is one of my all time favorite kinks, so however you do it, I'll love it.
• Arousal - Aroused Victim
• Attitude - Aggressor in Denial About It Being Xcon - I love the idea of Meredith falling for Lexie over time and being in denial about how inappropriate her feelings are, considering Lexie's age and their relation to each other, even to the point of convincing herself Lexie wants it back.
• Attitude - Victim Secretly Enjoys the Attention - "Ever since I knew you existed, I had this fantasy about my big sister..." - Lexie (s4e15). Lexie wants the attention and love of her big sister so bad. I headcanon that her parents spoiled her younger sister and somewhat neglected her.
• Attitude - Victim Unsure of Own Consent
• Coercion - Aggressor Convinces Victim Only Aggressor Will Ever Love Them - The idea of Meredith grooming Lexie over time into thinking this is absolutely delicious. 
• Coercion - Emotional Manipulation 
• Conditioning - Aggressor methodically grooms victim over a period of time to accept the xcon
• Dynamic - Groping Escalates to Xcon - I love the idea of Meredith taking things just a little bit further each time, starting with very tame, light touching and escalating from there when Lexie gets used to it.
• Intimacy - Aggressor Takes Care of Victim
• Medical - Medical/Scientific Examination - Maybe Lexie gets sick, and who better to examine her than Meredith herself? So what if she gets a little too hands-on...
• Motive - Aggressor is Drunk - I really love the borderline alcoholic, messy Meredith we see in the early seasons of the show, and I imagine she was like that but even worse when she was a little younger. 
• Scenario - Aggressor escalates xcon into ever increasing depravity
• Underage - Drinking - Meredith would be astounded to find out that Lexie has never tried alcohol before, and let her sample some of her tequila. Just a sip! Or maybe a few...
• Underage - planning to wait until underage character turns 18 and failing - This paired with Lexie being a little brat and being the one who pursues Meredith would be amazing.
• Watersports - Bathroom Control - Meredith didn't exactly have a good upbringing herself, so maybe she thinks this is a normal form of punishment for a teenager. 

 

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Pretty Little Liars (TV)

Request: A makes Melissa Hastings & Spencer Hastings mxcon - fic

Its been years since PLL ended but I still am absolutely fascinated with the relationship between Spencer and Melissa. There's so much tension between them, all they need is that little push from A... (who can be Mona, Charlotte, unspecified, or whoever else you want).

Freeforms:

• Altered States - Victim Dosed with Aphrodisiac - The thought of A armed with sex pollen or something of the sort is a formidable one! I can easily see them slipping it into their food, or even managing to lock them in a room together and dose them.
• Attitude - Xcon Makes Victim Aware of Own Previously Unrealized Feelings
• Captivity - Xcon during captivity - Maybe this is a version of the Dollhouse where Melissa is captured too, or something else entirely.
• Coercion - Manipulation
• Incest - Third Party Makes Them Do It
• Incest - Too Guilty About Incestuous Desires to Consent
• Intimacy - Forced to Share Sexual Fantasies - Ugh, this would be amazing for that extra layer of humiliation. A threatening both of them into confessing their darkest thoughts about one another...
• Mxcon - Ashamed of enjoying mxcon
• Sex Pollen - Victims Forced to Choose Between Sex Pollen and Truth Serum Choose Sex Pollen - Wow, did A come up with this freeform? Because they would have a blast with putting the girls through this scenario.

 

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To end this, I'd like to extend a huge thanks if you took the time to read through my letter, and if you're writing for me or thinking of treating me! I really appreciate it, and above all, I hope you have a good time making it.