Femdom Exchange 2021 Letter

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Dear creator,

Hello! I'm timbre, on AO3 as, well, timbre. First off, thank you for creating for me (or considering it)!

I love everything I'm requesting equally, and as long as the gift doesn't include any DNWs, I will be thrilled to receive it! I'm open to art treats for any of my requests, even for ones that I'm not requesting art for.

This letter includes the information from my signup, prompts, and some of my thoughts on each ship.

Happy creating!

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Navigation

• General Likes and DNWs
  
• Crossover Fandom (Grey's Anatomy/DC's Arrowverse)
  
• DC's Arrowverse
  
• Grey's Anatomy
  
• Supergirl RPF

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Likes/DNWs

Smut likes:

• cunnilingus
• fellatio
• woman-on-top
• face-sitting
• fingering
• frottage
• strap-ons
• intercrural
• masturbation or mutual masturbation
• breathplay (particularly choking)
• aphrodisiacs
• mind control
• hypnosis
• sex pollen
• "[blank] made them do it"
• clothed sex
• orgasm delay/denial
• begging
• coming in pants
• boot/footgear worship
• foot/leg humping
• puppyplay
• degradation and humiliation (particularly in femdom)
• fingers in mouth
• femdom
• desperation (both the piss kind and the orgasm kind)
• oral fixation
• pegging
• collars and/or leashes
• gags
• somnophilia
• restraints
• dream sex
• heated physical or verbal confrontations culminating in sex
• drug use before or during sex (weed, psychedelics, ecstasy are some favorites)
• drunk sex
• shotgunning (while smoking)
• voyeurism (consensual or not)
• crossdressing
• gunplay, knifeplay
• dubcon
• "consensual but not safe or sane" sex
• praise kink
• female character being called "daddy"
• mommy kink
• stealthy public sex
• wing kink, wing grooming
• werecreature sex, shifter sex
• characters kinking on being related to each other

General likes:

• any length of fic
• smut
• power imbalances
• porn without plot
• porn with plot
• porn with feelings
• character studies
• timeloops
• angst
• sexual tension
• pining
• canon-divergent AUs
• bed sharing
• possessiveness
• missing scenes
• first time getting together
• wing AUs (especially if combined with a/b/o-like or D/s dynamics)
• bi/multi lingual characters
• werewolf/vampire/other supernatural AUs where everything is the same except [character(s)] are werewolves/vampires/etc
• fix-it fic
• post-canon fic
• banter
• co-dependency
• fake dating
• time shenanigans
• "what could've been" fics based on canon moments
• characters struggling with internal conflicts
• bodyswap

DNWs:

• anal with a female character receiving
• rimming
• noncon where the victim feels no pleasure
• pregnancy (m-preg and f-preg)
• scat
• crackfic
• unrequested pairings; background mentions of canon pairings is fine though
• trans headcanons
• asexual headcanons
• kidfic
• 1st person (2nd is okay)
• unrequested poly
• mundane AUs
• fisting
• enthusiastic consent (e.g. establishing a safeword or use of the "green, red" system)
• explicit underage sexual content with a character younger than 13

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Crossover Fandom (DC's Arrowverse/Grey's Anatomy)

 

Relationship: Alex Danvers (DC's Arrowverse) doms Meredith Grey (Grey's Anatomy), Meredith Grey (Grey's Anatomy) doms Alex Danvers (DC's Arrowverse)

So, as you can probably tell by my other requests, I ship Meredith/Lexie in Grey's, and Lexie is played by the same actress who plays Alex, so naturally I immediately wanted a crossover. 

Prompts:

• Grey Sloan having some kind of Grey's-typical crisis involving aliens, so Alex gets sent there, and Meredith sees this woman dressed in black who's the spitting image of her dead little sister, but at the same time, everything about her is completely different from Lexie. Meredith just has to get to know her, and she projects all those unfulfilled feelings she had about Lexie onto Alex.
• Or maybe Lexie isn't dead, but Meredith has unrequited feelings towards her, so when she sees Alex she jumps at the chance to almost get what she wants.
• AU where, when Alex was in her college years and a mess, she gets so drunk she ends up at Grey Sloan/Seattle Grace and Meredith is her doctor
• Meredith is drunk at Joe's after a breakup with Derek or something similar, and she meets Alex at the bar and finds herself unreasonably attracted to this woman who resembles her sister
• Maybe even an AU where Lexie and Alex are actually the same person, and Kara saved Lexie from the plane crash, and then Lexie quit the hospital and started working for the DEO, but every once in a while she goes back to visit her half sister, Meredith.

Relationship: Kara Danvers (DC's Arrowverse) doms Lexie Grey (Grey's Anatomy)

So, as you can probably tell by my other requests, I ship Alex/Kara in Supergirl, and Alex is played by the same actress who plays Lexie, so naturally I immediately wanted a crossover. 

Prompts:

•  A Grey's-typical disaster happens in Seattle, and of course Supergirl is there to help. She's rushing around helping people to safety when in the midst of the chaos she sees a doctor who looks just like her sister when she was a little younger. After the chaos is over, she tracks her down and finds her at Joe's and flirts with her, thinking it's the closest she'll ever get to being with Alex
• Kara saves the plane from crashing and saves Lexie, then gets to know her afterwards, and the two of them grow close.
• Lexie has always had a crush on Supergirl, and has always dreamed of meeting her someday. Her dream finally comes true and more when Supergirl takes a special interest in her, for reasons she can't quite suss out.
• Kara is sent by CatCo to report on some kind of disaster that happens at Seattle Grace and she interviews Lexie, then she can't seem to stop thinking about her. She starts flying by the hospital as Supergirl to keep an eye on her and eventually she can't resist coming back again as Kara too and talking to Lexie. 
• When Kara is on another earth on a crossover mission, she meets that earth's Alex: Lexie Danvers, a doctor working in Seattle, who doesn't have her own Kara.

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DC's Arrowverse

Relationship: Alex Danvers doms Kara Danvers

I got into Supergirl about 5 years late, but WOW, these two are shippy. I love their relationship in seasons 1-2 most but I'd be happy to receive fic set at any point in the show (or pre-canon).

Prompts:

• Alex helps Kara through the effects of some kind of Kryptonite (or other substance) that has sex pollen-like effects
• I love pretty much every era of their relationship--including when they were teens and didn't get along at first. Would love to see more of their years growing up together, or the years when Alex first went to college and Kara was still in high school. Did they visit each other? Have nightly calls? Maybe those calls lead to Alex talking Kara through touching herself. Or Alex teaching Kara about sex when they're both in high school.
• Something set when Alex was basically an alcoholic and on academic probation and a total mess. Maybe Kara drops by on a particularly bad night, or Alex drunk texts/calls her and it leads to a confession of feelings and Alex making moves on her, then things go from there
• Alex stumbles upon Supergirl themed porn and can't seem to tear her eyes away. Later, Kara finds it in her search history, and confronts her about it
• Alex has such a nurturing, motherly streak. I would love to see something where she turns that towards Kara and takes care of her, letting Kara take the weight off her shoulders for a while and feel like a kid again, without responsibilities or worries, just the soft touch of her sister. Bonus points for mommy kink.
• Red Kryptonite Kara/Alex. Would be interesting to see a version where Alex fights back more against what RedK!Kara is saying/doing and refuses to let Kara dominate her, much to Kara's annoyance.
• Wing AU! Kara can already fly, I don't think it would be a stretch to write an AU where she flies with actual wings instead. Or give Alex some wings, that could be very interesting too!
• Something set during the season 4 mind-wipe; maybe Alex starts crushing on Supergirl without realizing it's Kara, and eventually makes a move on her, and then afterwards, calls up Kara to tell her about it and Kara has to listen to Alex talk about her feelings for Supergirl while pretending it isn't actually her.
• The two of them have to pretend to be dating while they're undercover on a mission for whatever reason. And then they have to kiss. And then more things happen.

Relationship: Lillian Luthor doms Lena Luthor

Lena's mommy issues are absolutely delicious.

Prompts:

• These two... aslkfdkljfds. Their chemistry is insane. I love how cold and manipulative Lillian is towards Lena, and how Lena just keeps coming back to her despite it, because she's so desperate for her love. 
• Lillian manages to find a way to turn the situation around and get the Truth-Seeker on Lena instead, and Lillian forces Lena to tell her in explicit detail what she really wants from her mom.
• When she was working as Cadmus, maybe Lillian develops a sex pollen-like drug and administers it unknowingly to Lena.
• Would love to see a peek into their relationship as Lena grew up. Make it as dark and twisted as you want.
• Tbh I don't have that many prompts for these two because their interactions are so limited but I will be more than thrilled to receive anything about them. They're such an underrated pair.

 

 

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Grey's Anatomy

Relationship: Meredith Grey doms Lexie Grey

If you have any interest in this pairing but are intimidated by how long Grey's Anatomy is, don't fear! Here's a video with most Meredith & Lexie moments in canon, and here is a (much longer) video with most of Lexie's scenes. Warning for major character death at the end of both.

A note: I prefer minimal Derek in any fic I receive, but I don't mind if Meredith cheats on him or if he's mentioned tangentially, as long as the fic is mainly centric to Meredith and Lexie's feelings and their relationship with each other.

Prompts:

• I love both the catty, antagonistic era of Lexie and Meredith's relationship as well as when they're closer as sisters, so I'd be delighted to receive something set at any point in the timeline of the show (or even an AU where Lexie lives and is alive in a later season).
• I'm a big fan of darker takes on Meredith, where she has some of her mom's worst traits and doesn't mind using other people or humiliating them, so noncon/dubcon takes on this pairing are welcome as well.
• Something based on Crash Into Me Part 2, when Cristina brings Lexie to Meredith's house and they drink together for the first time. That devolving into drunk sex where Meredith is still conflicted about how she feels about Lexie would be amazing
• Drunk sex or sex that comes about because of a drinking game that Meredith hosts would also be great
• When Lexie is living with Meredith, or maybe just at the hospital, she walks in on Meredith changing/masturbating/having sex, and is unable to stop thinking about it.
• I actually don't mind a completely one-sided take on this, where Lexie is pining for Meredith and fantasizing about her, meanwhile Meredith still resents her and treats her like crap (or, if it's set later on, Meredith is more affectionate towards her, maybe they do sisterly things like sleep in the same bed, and it just makes Lexie's feelings all the more intense). Maybe Lexie has a wet dream about Meredith and Meredith finds out, or walks in on Lexie masturbating while fantasizing about her, or maybe Meredith doesn't find out at all!
• Meredith calling Lexie a good girl/good pet, dominating her and turning Lexie into a blushing, stuttering mess
• Meredith using Lexie's weakness for food to get closer to her/turn their relationship from sisterly to romantic/sexual
• Sex pollen - however you want to make this work in this universe, maybe some patient gets exposed to sex pollen and it's incredibly contagious, and Lexie or Meredith (or both of them) happen to be the one to treat the patient and it gets transferred to them.
• Lexie being a virgin and Meredith finding out, and "teaching" her about sex/how to have sex, with increasingly little plausible deniability about what they're actually doing together
• Meredith forcing Lexie to use her photographic memory for her, maybe to help her study or help her with a case somehow, and then rewarding Lexie afterwards, when her brain is completely fried

Relationship: Meredith Grey & Cristina Yang dom Lexie Grey

If you have any interest in this pairing but are intimidated by how long Grey's Anatomy is, don't fear! Here's a video with most Meredith & Lexie moments in canon, and here is a (much longer) video with most of Lexie's scenes. Warning for major character death at the end of both.

A note: I prefer minimal Derek in any fic I receive, but I don't mind if Meredith cheats on him or if he's mentioned tangentially, as long as the fic is mainly centric to Meredith, Lexie, and Cristina's feelings and their relationships with each other.

Prompts:

• So... I just love the idea of these two basically tag teaming Lexie and overwhelming her with pleasure and humiliation until she cries, basically.
• The episode where Meredith and Cristina both say Lexie's "heart is in her vagina"--maybe they set out to prove it to her, together
• Meredith and Cristina are just SO catty and mean to Lexie in season 4, I'd love to see that extend to the bedroom, but Lexie being super into it. Or she's legitimately humiliated by it, but too afraid of Meredith and Cristina to say no, if you want to go for more of a dub/noncon take on it.
• Competence kink! Maybe Cristina, Meredith, and Lexie are somehow all on a case together and Meredith and/or Cristina do something in the O.R. or figure something out on the case that just blows Lexie's mind
• All of them drinking together--maybe drinking games escalate to something more, or Meredith and Cristina just start getting handsy in front of Lexie and things go from there
• All of them smoking weed together! I know it's probably unrealistic for surgeons to smoke weed, but it's fanfic and I don't care. Maybe Meredith still has a stash left over from when she was in school.
• Maybe something from Cristina's POV where she watches Meredith and Lexie's relationship slowly shift from hatred to sisterly love to something more, and then inserts herself in the situation

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Supergirl RPF

Relationship: Chyler Leigh doms Melissa Benoist

You can pretend their husbands don't exist or have them cheat on them, I don't really mind either way.

Prompts:

• Chyler keeps using her "mommy voice" on set, and it does things to Melissa. 
• The sheer number of interviews in which these two squee about each other is insane. Something set at a con or something similar, where Chyler flusters Melissa in front of the audience with compliments and then flusters her in other ways backstage afterwards.
• They share a hotel room... and there was only one bed!
• Maybe the two of them are hanging out and it gets late and they've been drinking a little and they look up fanfiction about their characters, and end up getting surprisingly into it, and it awakens feelings about each other
• They always talk about how emotional/draining Kara & Alex scenes can be. Maybe after filming one of those moments, Melissa feels extra vulnerable around Chyler and lets slip her feelings for her.
• Them running lines together in one of their trailers, for an intense Kara & Alex scene, and they end up getting so close they brush up against each other and one thing leads to another

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To end this, I'd like to extend a huge thanks if you took the time to read through my letter, and if you're writing for me or thinking of treating me! I really appreciate it, and above all, I hope you have a good time making it.